Why BYOBC is as revolutionary as the iPhone

Why BYOBC is as revolutionary as the iPhone

How Be Your Own Best Coach Will Boost Your Career and Transform Your Life

When it comes to helping you get ahead in your career or achieve your personal goals, Be Your Own Best Coach does for participants what the iPhone did for communication.

Be Your Own Best Coach is big, different, and new.

In creating Be Your Own Best Coach, we don’t offer you a new version of the same old, same old.

Instead, we have synthesized breakthrough discoveries and landmark developments into a rigorous, cohesive system for lasting change.

Change this one thing and you change your whole life

Change this one thing and you change your whole life

We’ve refined and expanded this approach to transformational writing. We call our method Solution-focused StoryCrafting. It takes the best practices from therapeutic journaling and marries them to evidence-based interventions for behavior-change and personal transformation.

Solution-focused StoryCrafting takes you on a systematic journey that leaves behind narratives saturated with problems, failure, and frustration. It replaces them with a life story based on hope, confidence, and competence.

How to escape the negativity bias trap

How to escape the negativity bias trap

The negative bias compels us to pay more attention to negative than positive stuff. Plus, negative events and experiences imprint more quickly in our memories and stick around a lot longer than positive memories.

Your ability to overcome your natural negativity bias (as well as other kinds of thinking errors) is a key point of leverage in your career success.

How to Set Clear Boundaries to Get What You Need from Others

How to Set Clear Boundaries to Get What You Need from Others

In this Be Your Own Best Coach workshop, you will learn a technique to help you reduce the anxiety, agony, and conflict that are part of a lot of relationships. You’ll gain the skills to:

  1. Own your own story

  2. Share your story in a way that clearly communicates your boundaries

  3. Invite people to join you on your journey in a way that works for you . . . and respects their choice

Are You Ready for the Challenge? Announcing Be Your Own Best Coach Fall Cohort

Are You Ready for the Challenge?    Announcing Be Your Own Best Coach Fall Cohort

We are officially launching the fall cohort of Be Your Own Best Coach, our flagship online course on how to build the crucial self-leadership skills.

This year, we’ll be expanding our focus to self-leadership. Self-leadership isn’t a term you hear everyday, not like “resilience.” And yet, self-leadership is exactly what you must have if you are a professional, entrepreneur, or someone in transition and want to accelerate your career. That’s because self-leadership is fundamental to individual and collective success.

The Upside . . . and Darkside of the Things in Your LIfe

The Upside . . . and Darkside of the Things in Your LIfe

In our Y-PET (You, People, Environment, and Things) framework, Things means the external factors--tools, props, gear, equipment, games, and challenges--that motivate and enable you to act in ways that help you achieve your goals.

“Leaders are supposed to know what skills and equipment are needed to get the job done right or to achieve a goal. If you have one but not the other--if you have the right skills but don’t have the right equipment--you’ll fail.”

The bottom line is that you must have both the right stuff and the right way to put it to use.

Can’t live with ‘em, can’t live without ‘em: The people in our lives

Can’t live with ‘em, can’t live without ‘em: The people in our lives

Normal--and even healthy--relationships are a dance from connection to distance and back. From connection to conflict and back. From rupture to repair. In fact, the best relationships not only are best at connecting, but they are best at biting and licking--or in human terms, recovering from conflict.